Guide · Diverse families
Surrogacy for same-sex couples and single parents in Colombia
How it works for two dads, for a single man or for a single woman: genetics, donor eggs, the baby's registration and the emotional support you need.
By the Gestación con Amor team · October 23, 2026 · 8 min read
For a long time, becoming a father as part of a male couple, or becoming a parent without a partner, seemed like a path full of closed doors. Today surrogacy opens a real possibility, and Colombia has become one of the destinations where more and more diverse families are making it happen. This guide answers, plainly, the questions we hear most.
Why Colombia for diverse families?
Colombia recognized adoption by same-sex couples in 2015 and same-sex marriage in 2016, both through decisions of the Constitutional Court. In addition, there is no law that prohibits surrogacy, and the Court has recognized it in several rulings since 2009. Because there is no comprehensive regulation and bills are under debate, every journey should be done with partner lawyers and clear contracts.
On top of that, you have a team that has worked with families of every kind from day one, with an inclusive, personalized approach.
For same-sex male couples: two dads, one family
Who provides the genetic material?
It is the couple's decision, made together with the fertility clinic specialist. Some couples choose one of them; others, for example, plan a sibling later with the other partner's genetic material.
How do we get the eggs?
Through the egg donation programs of our partner clinics. The specialist explains the options and the selection process.
How do both dads appear on the documents?
It depends on Colombian law and the law of your country of residence. That is why, before you start, our partner lawyers explain the legal route for both of you to be recognized as parents.
More details on our page for same-sex couples.
For single men
A single man can become a father through surrogacy with his own genetic material and donor eggs. What people doing it on their own ask us for most is real support: someone who answers at any hour, who is there at appointments and who helps in the first days with the baby. That is why we offer 24/7 support, a nurse for the first three days after the birth, and a crib, stroller, changing table, car seat and baby bath on loan.
For single women
When a woman wants to be a mother but pregnancy is not possible or not advisable for her, surrogacy can be the path. She can use her own eggs or donor eggs, as the specialist recommends. Learn more on our page for single parents.
Emotional support is part of the process too
This journey has beautiful moments and others that stir up a lot of emotions. That is why the program includes psychological support: Luis supports parents who live outside Colombia, in English or Spanish, and Angie supports the surrogates throughout the process. Meet our team.
“I have no words to thank this agency for everything it has done for me. Everything was easy, smooth, very human and ethical. I would do it again without a doubt.” — Intended father
Timelines: how long the process takes
Preparing the surrogate takes 3 to 5 months, and in total the support lasts about 18 to 20 months, including the pregnancy and the time after the birth.
If you live outside Colombia
We welcome you in Bogotá with a dedicated host, cover your transfers, help you with accommodation, and you follow the pregnancy from your country on our platform. Also check your home country's rules in our international guide.
This article is for information only and does not replace legal or medical advice from a professional.
